Relax, it’s Anal Sex

You’re right.

Today I write about the other sacred entrance. 

I remember myself saying during lovemaking when my love(r) would pull out and we’d switch positions that he would sometimes accidentally knock on

“The Wrong Door”. 

And that he’d gently remind me it’s not the wrong door, it’s the other one. 

“The Other Door”. 

A.K.A. “The Back Door”. 

Which is a great entrance towards deep surrender, relaxation, and bliss that can last for a few hours or days. 

How?

First there’s just a lot of pleasure to be found in this dandelion flower, this rosebud on the outside. 

Just because of nerves that feel yummy when touched when being aroused and with a little lube of some kind. 

Pleasure inside is a bit more work for most people. 

Have you ever heard about “being anal”?

This is where someone “is choosing to be tight and strong minded like the anal sphincter” (Urban Dictionary).

It can be quite tight. 

For some it requires quite some practice to loosen up. 

Here I mean literally relaxing the muscles, which requires... conscious relaxation of the muscles. 

And some sphincter muscles might need some stretching. Just like with yoga where bit by bit you can go further into the pose. 

Don’t ever overdo it! 

Then it’s not pleasurable and so painful you’d never want to explore again. 

Bit by bit exploring further though can open you up for deep relaxation and pleasure. 

And it does something with you. 

Especially when you’ve got a lot of tension and tightness. 

When you’re being quite “anal” it can help to loosen you up also on other levels. 

It can make you more relaxed. 

From experience I can tell you that:

1. There are quite some parts of me that are quite uptight and love order and structure.

2. Anal relaxation and activation is heaven to me, because this relaxation and calmness that I need to get there stays with me for days.

3. I can get high on it. Yep. 

Because there’s (again) a connection with the base of core energy channel of the body (“Kundalini”). 

Stimulation on the inside of the anus can generate a lot of life force energy. 

So yeah, a lot to discover here. 

Dirty? 

Most often not, just make sure that before play to have done your big business of the day. 

There are multiple ways to make it cleaner if you’re really scared of some brownness (that’s not for now though).  

Always, always make sure that whatever has touched your rosebud doesn’t touch the vulva anymore, because this can cause an infection. 

Relax, it’s Anal Se%. 

Curious about the tools and practices? Begin with The Foundation Practice from my Multi-Orgasmic Method, it’s free here!